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CHILD CUSTODY The future of your relationship with your children depends on it. WHAT IS CHILD CUSTODY? Child custody is a term that refers to the bundle of rights and responsibilities that a parent carries with respect to his/her child. Child custody includes numerous concepts, some of which overlap and some that are distinct. The term child custody can be further broken down into terms that shed additional light and provide a greater understanding of the respective parents’ rights and obligations with respect to their common child. WHAT ARE SOME COMMON TERMS? • Legal Custody - the parent with legal custody can make all decisions regarding the health, welfare and education of the child. • Physical Custody - determines which parent has the actual, physical right to be with the child. • Sole Legal Custody - when one parent is awarded sole legal custody, that parent makes all decisions regarding the health, education and welfare of the child (and the other parent has no input on these decisions) • Sole Physical Custody - when one parent is given sole physical custody, the child remains with him/her and the other parent is excluded from having physical custody of the child (typically when the other parent has abused or neglected the child) • Joint Legal Custody - both parents participate in reaching decisions regarding the health, education and welfare of the child. • Joint Physical Custody - both parents have the ability to be with the child, typically joint physical custody is coupled with a parenting plan to determine who will be with the child at what particular time. • Shared Custody - both parents equally share the legal and physical custody of the child. Typically found only where both parents are able to resolve their personal differences and keep them in check for the sake of raising the child in a caring, nurturing environment. Usually in situations where the parents live close by each other or in similar communities. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CUSTODIAL PARENT AND NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT? The custodial parent is the term that is used for the parent that has primary physical custody of a child. Typically the child resides with the custodial parent. CUSTODY DECISIONS (Always a Judicial Determination) The older a child becomes, the more inclined the court is to order what the child chooses, in conjunction with the "best interests of the child." The best interests of the child are the key in custody battles. A judge is very, very cognizant of the fact that a child will "gravitate" toward wanting to live with a parent who is very permissive; "Even though Mom won't allow you Johnny, you can watch T.V. here in my house until 11:00 p.m." Or, when a parent is all fun and games: "Gee, Mom. It's so boring here. When I go to Dad's house, we always go to the park or to the Carnivals." Judges are very aware that it is the custodial parent who must act as the "Bad Guy" and kids don't like it. A judge will usually question a child about such matters, and may even seek the advice of an unbiased social worker who has met the family members before deciding what he or she thinks is in "the best interests" of the child. WHAT IS CHILD VISITATION AND A "PARENTING PLAN" and HOW DOES THIS AFFECT CUSTODY? Custody and visitation are considered at the same time since the factors and circumstances taken into consideration by the court in making these determinations are
essentially the same. WHAT IF THE PARENTS DISAGREE ON CHILD CUSTODY AND VISITATION? Most states require both parents who are unable to reach an agreement on the issues of custody and visitation to participate in a mediation session to work out such a plan.
In the mediation session, both parents meet with a third party, typically an experienced attorney or social worker, to discuss relevant factors in an effort to reach an agreement. Many contested issues of custody and visitation
can be resolved in a mediation session and this session typically results in an agreement, which then can be presented as a Stipulation for issuance as a court order. WHAT IS A COURT ORDERED EXPERT CUSTODY EVALUATION ? Custody battles are often determined by Expert Testimony that is secured from a Court-ordered evaluator. These custody evaluations can take up to 6 months and may be
psychological or psychiatric in nature. The evaluator will meet with all the necessary parties and children, conduct interview, perform testing, speak with teachers/friends/relatives, review medical and police reports, etc. Whatever the level of your need may be, call the Urick Law Center. Don’t take chances with your relationship with your children. Call us – 818-227-3378. We can help. • Pay by credit card. |
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